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- Death and Dying: Implications for Dance/Movement Therapy
- Journey Program (Grief and Loss)
- Helping a Client Receiving End-of-life Care
- Counseling Strategies for the Dying and Their Loved Ones
Grief is a natural response to loss. Often, the pain of loss can feel overwhelming. You may experience all kinds of difficult and unexpected emotions, from shock or anger to disbelief, guilt, and profound sadness. The pain of grief can also disrupt your physical health, making it difficult to sleep, eat, or even think straight.
Death and Dying: Implications for Dance/Movement Therapy
NCBI Bookshelf. Geneva: World Health Organization; Death is something we all have to contend with. However, the death of a baby at birth or the woman during birth is particulary difficult. People's reactions to death vary greatly; it is not something that can be predicted in advance. There are a few practical steps you can take to help someone through the bereavement process but most support activities are reactive to the needs and wishes of the family members.
Bereavement support groups exist; you may wish to refer some women or families to these. In this session we provide you with information to strengthen your understanding of bereavement processes and focus on developing your skills to better support family members in bereavement. Death of a family member is something that everyone experiences at some point. How people react to death varies enormously and it is not possible to predict what a person's reaction will be.
The death of a family member affects not only the individuals in the family, but also the family unit as a whole. The specific difficulties the family faces and the manner in which they cope with them depends on the particular circumstances of the family and of the death. For some, sudden death of the woman or baby during birth can often be more difficult for family members to cope with than death following a long illness, where there was opportunity for family members to prepare themselves in some way.
This is not always the case, so do not assume that a family will react in a certain way. The way in which people act following the death of a family member can change over time. A range of emotions may be experienced from anger, shock and disbelief, to sadness, and even long term depression. All these emotions are normal. The usual stages of grief are denial, anger, bargaining followed by depression and eventual acceptance.
For some people there can be a delay as long as several weeks or even months before they begin to grieve for the loss of the dead person.
In order to provide support you need to be prepared for all and any of these emotions and at different times. You may find providing support following death a particularly hard task for yourself emotionally. Remember to ensure that you get extra support at this time.
You need to look after yourself in order to continue to support others. The death of a baby or newborn is a hard time for any couple. The death of the baby may also be linked to the woman herself being ill and hospitalized for sometime after the death of the baby. This places major stress on a couple's relationship.
Sometimes it brings the couple closer together; sometimes it can push them apart, especially if one of them blames the other for the death. In many communities, the death of a baby is often sadly blamed on the mother, who then has to deal with her own grief and feelings of guilt, and she may be subjected to blame from her partner or family.
This requires additional support to both the woman and her partner. It is important to help the couple to better understand the cause of the baby's death by going over the circumstances of the death. This places another stress on the couple and particularly on the woman who, even if she has physically recovered from the loss of her baby, will often not want to have sexual intercourse for some time.
This may make her feel guilty that she is not able to be more loving to her husband or partner. Another more serious response is that she may then be coerced or forced to have sex with her husband.
In such situations you can play an important role in encouraging the couple to take the time to grieve over the loss of their baby before thinking of having another child. If there are other children in the family, these children also need ongoing care and support and involvement in the grieving process. Support groups or others who have gone through similar experiences can provide valuable support to a grieving family.
Make a list of support groups or other contact persons to offer a family affected by the death of a baby or the mother. Where it is culturally appropriate you can help to prepare the mother, parents or family for the death by explaining to them what is happening. Facilitate the needs they have; the family may want to have time alone with the woman or baby, or they may want a quiet place to pray.
Remember to maintain confidentiality and to respect their wishes when possible. One of the hardest things that you may have to do as a health worker is tell someone that their wife or baby has died. No matter how often you may have to do this, it is still a difficult task. One of the most important things is to communicate the death as quickly as possible. Even if the parents or family members are present when the baby or mother dies, it may not be immediately apparent to them.
As soon as the death has occurred, you must find the next of kin and notify them. If possible take them to a private room where you can talk to them in confidential surroundings. Let them remain in the room for as long as they need to be there. Try to accommodate their needs, for example, some people will want to spend time with the deceased and may not want to be in a separate room. When the death of a mother or baby is first communicated to family members they may or may not want to know the cause of death.
If you are fairly certain of the cause at that time, you can explain this to them in simple terms, and give them an opportunity to ask questions and express their grief. It is important to give information about the cause of death. If you are not certain of the cause you can give the probable cause and explain some of the contributing factors.
Ask the family how much information they want at this time, you can always provide more details later. It is a good idea to come back later and check whether the first information that you provided has been understood or if the family have any new questions later, once the initial shock has subsided.
It can be useful to go through the different events leading up to the death and how these may or may not have contributed to the outcome. The purpose of this is not to blame or point out where people may have failed. Remember to show empathy and respect as you hold this discussion. Just as people need reasons to follow actions we suggest, people need to understand the reasons why death has occurred. Sometimes this information is needed because family members may be feeling guilty that they did something wrong, or failed to do enough to prevent the death.
Over time this information may help with the bereavement process. How people deal with death varies in different communities. Where it is culturally acceptable, people should be encouraged to spend time with the dead person if they want to. You can help to facilitate this period of being with the deceased person following death by providing a quiet place, away from distractions, where privacy can be maintained. It may be helpful to designate a space within your health facility where families can spend some time together following a death.
Encourage family members to spend as long as they need with the dead person. Where a baby has died, parents may find it helpful to keep something that was linked with their baby, if culturally acceptable, such as a strand of hair, a photograph or some clothing. There are a number of practical tasks that health workers are responsible for when a woman or baby dies. To put together the relevant information on death and bereavement to help people in the community you serve.
Our View. Death can be an emotional time for health staff as well as family members. By putting this information together in one place it will serve as a useful reminder of the key tasks that need to be carried out, as well as providing additional information on sources of support and practical help and advice that might get overlooked due to the emotional difficulties surrounding a death.
Up to 2 hours group 30 minutes individual. To learn how to show empathy. This activity is to help you learn how to demonstrate empathy. If working alone, write your answers down on some paper. If you are working in a group, take turns to talk and share information. Everyone experiences grief or loss in their own unique way. However, there are some things that may be common to many people. If you did this as a group activity you may have been able to identify some common themes.
The emotions contributing to grief are very strong and can be overwhelming; they can be expressed both physically and emotionally. Write some notes on this activity in your notebook to help remind you of what it is like to feel grief. These notes may help you to empathize with women and their families who are experiencing the death of a family member. The most important thing that you can do for a family or person who is bereaved is to offer your support.
Sometimes it can be helpful to discuss with the bereaved the process of what they believe happens to the dead person. Every culture has a system of beliefs about death and ideas about what happens to the body, spirit or mind after death. These beliefs and the traditions that go with them can be useful in comforting families and parents. Long-term support for family members who have been bereaved is most likely not possible for most health workers. You already have many other tasks, roles and activities.
However, sometimes you may wish to offer support beyond the immediate time following death. Other support can be offered just by listening to the feelings and emotions of the bereaved. They might not want any practical support or feedback about what they are saying, just someone to listen to what has happened. This is where it can be important to demonstrate your active listening skills, to show you are listening intently and to reflect back to the person what you hear them say. Some family members may not want to talk but want an opportunity to express their feelings in a safe environment, especially if it is not considered appropriate for them to show their feelings elsewhere, or if they are unable to show them for other reasons.
As a health worker, an important role can also mean providing physical comfort such as holding or embracing the bereaved person or whatever is culturally appropriate in your situation. Some family members may benefit from more practical advice and support, particularly if they are finding it difficult to cope with household chores or caring for other family members.
Bereavement can often reveal previously hidden problems or underlying tensions within a family. If you have the time, work with families to find solutions which suit the context of their lives and which are appropriate for their situation or consider referring them to specialist services where they exist.
As we have already discussed grief and bereavement can produce very strong emotions. As a health worker you will also experience a range of emotions when someone you are caring for dies.
Journey Program (Grief and Loss)
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Helping a Client Receiving End-of-life Care
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Counseling Strategies for the Dying and Their Loved Ones
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NCBI Bookshelf. Geneva: World Health Organization; Death is something we all have to contend with. However, the death of a baby at birth or the woman during birth is particulary difficult. People's reactions to death vary greatly; it is not something that can be predicted in advance.
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